Assuming even 50% of that is true, it means you are woman that has her ish together. I am not bashing my gender. but a lot of men your age are more predators than daters. they look for chicks with no self esteem or Daddy issues so they can exploit and take advantage. For a dood to step to you he has to have it TOGETHER and frankly if he is a male counterpart to you he is likely a player just becoz so many women will throw themselves at him.
I will never forget how the baddest chicks in my senior class had no prom dates coz the guys were all too intimidated to ask them out. These were girls that were beautiful inside AND out and very sweet. but cats just didn’t think they stood a chance.
Like recognizes like. Keep doing you and give it time. Sweating over make companionship is a waste of energy. Try joining a professional organization that has regular meetings or maybe doing the singles cruise thing or an online compatibility service. Whatever you decide, don’t ever stop doing you. Let them step their game up to your level, don’t even THINK about coming down to theirs.
Why Am I Single (i Would Like To Know The Guy Opinion)?
Seriously- this is not a question I am comfortable asking random people, but I am doing it anyway because I don’t exactly trust the response of the people who are close to me as they may not be objective. I am a mid-20′s female, I work in commercial real estate and I am fairly successful for my age. I have a good head on my shoulders,I am abmitious, live on my own, cook well and have always been considered the caretaker of my group of friends. Also, I get approached a lot when I am out. People are always telling me that I am pretty or exotic or gorgeous and although I may not be confident enough to completely agree, I am a decent looking girl with nice hair and a pretty great body. I know that I am a little out of sorts when dealing with people the same age as I am (my friends and collegues are generally a few years older), I also know that until I relax around a person I tend to be hyper or talk a lot. Still- I’m not clingy and tend to fit in well as one of the guys…
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September 24, 2009
Well i go out with u you seem to have a good personality any guy who cant see that dosent deserve you
September 24, 2009
i am avaliable and you are …. So what u think !!
- Serious note – i think i am in the same situation as you. I dont know but i guess it takes time to find a right person
September 24, 2009
And your problem is…..what? That you don’t look like Angelina Jolie? That your cooking skills don’t measure up to Wolfgang Puck? That you’re not as sardonically witty as David Letterman?
Quit blaming yourself for being single. When you expect too much of yourself, people will notice it. Just relax, have fun, and don’t take life too seriously. You’ll have the pick of the litter.
To quote Caddyshack, “The Zen philosopher, Basho, once wrote, a flute with no holes, is not a flute. And a donut with no hole, is a danish.”
September 24, 2009
You sound like a catch to me.
You seem to have things together. It could be possible that guys are intimidated by you and would like to ask you out but don’t because you appear to have it all together.
Perhaps you have some major flaw that you are not noticing about yourself, being too close to the situation.
September 24, 2009
guess you don’t really wanna relationship!!! nice lookin girl with a nice body……unless your attitude stinks!!! you sound like a someone would be lucky to get with ya!!!
